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This post is all about one thing. Please learn to be yourself. The curious and detailed individual might look at the previous sentence and ask the question, “Learn to be yourself?” If you are that person (or if you’re not), you did read it right, I did say learn to be yourself, because too many people don’t know what it is to be themselves. Too many people right now are more concerned with trying to be someone else rather than discovering what it means to be themselves. To discover who you are takes a lot of hard work but it’s no different than a baby learning how to talk. You will emulate what you hear/see until you get to a place where you can now expand your vocabulary on your own.
Well for some people they don’t want to discover who they really are because that would mean that they might find that who they are is not compatible with who they want to be as well as who they want to be around, but the fact still remains that if you really want to have long term happiness and you really want to leave a lasting impact in this world, then y0u must be yourself. You don’t need to be a clone of anyone. Learning to be yourself requires you to take a real introspective look at who you are and what you have done as well as to get some feedback from people who will tell you the truth.
Bottom line is be yourself because everyone else is already taken.
I have found 10 characteristics that every person who becomes a dream achiever needs. As I said in the preview for this blog series these 10 characteristics aren’t necessarily all of the characteristics. These 10 are what jumped out to me when I was thinking about my life and the lives of other successful people that I’m fortunate to know and meet. So here’s the list that we will be tackling in this series:
- A Dream (Defined)
- Planning & Preparation
- Right Attitude
- Undivided Focus
- 10. Duplication
The first set of characteristics that we’re going to dive into is:
1. A Dream (Defined)
Some people may be thinking, “How is ‘a dream’ a characteristic of a dream achiever?” Well you need to have a dream in order to achieve a dream, and believe it or not, there are many people who never act on any of their dreams. For some people it amounts to them believing that it’s not possible for them. For others because they get so busy with the cares of life they forget the dream that was so pressing on their mind. And for others, they’ve been so disillusioned with a life that has been negative, stale, and boring for so long that they no longer believe that their dreams are capable of coming true. Far too often people who believe this are the same people that believe that just because they think about their dream that it’s supposed to automatically happen and that no work is required. That is so far from the truth (no matter what the new-agers out there are trying to say, just thinking strongly about your dream will not make it happen without some action on your part).
Once you have a dream in your mind that you would like to achieve, you need to get to a computer, pen & paper, voice recorder, or anything else that will allow you to take your dream from being in your head to being documented so that you don’t forget it as well as so that you can consistently reference it. Your dream defined is your 1st characteristic because a dream defined allows you to see the end/desired result of what you want to accomplish. It gives you something to build towards. Stephen Covey refers to this as “begin with the end in mind”. When the picture of what you desire is truly defined, then you can find a way to get there, but when what you want is still somewhere in the clouds with no definition, how do you think you’re going to make that happen when you don’t even know what it is you want? Once you have a dream defined you will need to work on characteristic #2.
Webster’s Dictionary defines knowledge as:
(1): the fact or condition of knowing something with familiarity gained through experience or association (2): acquaintance with or understanding of a science, art, or technique.
So now that you have your dream defined, you must gather the knowledge that you will need in order to accomplish that which you are looking to achieve. If you always wanted to play a musical instrument at the highest level possible; or be a professional athlete in any sport; or even be a CEO in business you’re not going to just waltz in the door of these professions with no experience and assume these positions (well maybe the CEO is an exception if you are starting your own business, but I think you get my point). You need to gain knowledge of all of the aspects and attributes of what goes into being a professional musician, athlete, or CEO before you can ever become one and be successful at it.
The knowledge that you gain allows you to be prepared to work on the next characteristics that we’ll cover in our next post: Planning/Preparation & Practice.